tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post5288144507888076330..comments2023-10-19T11:27:25.565-04:00Comments on Nutwood Junction: Get the funk outBethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05149068921334726430noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-85670480959748070372010-08-31T23:57:53.045-04:002010-08-31T23:57:53.045-04:00Love Parliament!! I hope you are feeling better. H...Love Parliament!! I hope you are feeling better. Had to take Thomas to the doctor yesterday for a bad cold/infection. I hope you're feeling better mentally, too. I think you've still got a lot of good years left in you, girl, and you obviously have a lot more reading to do during those years. You have had a rough year, though. Thomas just turned 50 this year, and I think that has been the only birthday that has really affected him. He snapped out of it pretty quickly though. So hang in there, and feel better!!Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08506026496063245730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-79505881465643254402010-08-31T14:07:58.803-04:002010-08-31T14:07:58.803-04:00Beth, I'm glad you were able to get all that o...Beth, I'm glad you were able to get all that off your chest. Hope you feel a bit lighter. As Stan said, he went through this(and I remember it) and moved through it, so will you, when you have time to adjust. Right now, just feel what you need to feel.Kyle Leachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369076904327452139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-30605683018421212992010-08-27T00:40:57.921-04:002010-08-27T00:40:57.921-04:00You're 48? Feh! You're just a kid.
Now l...You're 48? Feh! You're just a kid.<br /><br />Now look here and listen to me. You don't measure life by years. You are not on the down side. Many people accomplish more living after they reach 50 then they ever did before. It's wake up time, not look forward to death time. And you are not what you are because of what your body is doing. The main thing that happened to me when I turned 50 was to wonder, after half a century of life, where all the wisdom was that I was supoosed to have. That's when I started gaining some. Remember this from a wise man: "You can't help growing older, but you don't have to grow old."<br />DBDBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09144446186279708019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-81365103135394007252010-08-26T21:46:00.221-04:002010-08-26T21:46:00.221-04:00I hear you. When someone close to me or that I kne...I hear you. When someone close to me or that I knew well, passes, it always makes me think of my own mortality...as we get older, doesn't have to be a milestone year (shouldn't every year be a milestone?), we know we're on the down side. As you said, we're in line...<br />Hope you can shake the funk...its no fun!Myrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04711728055250855435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-40834561202662086592010-08-26T17:04:54.461-04:002010-08-26T17:04:54.461-04:00Colds tend to bring on the bad thoughts, take 2 da...Colds tend to bring on the bad thoughts, take 2 days of Vitamin D and then tell me how you feel then.<br /><br />I am sure u will better.Mind Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09112890718925524313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-24403342943117869562010-08-26T10:28:38.732-04:002010-08-26T10:28:38.732-04:00When I turned 48, I started menopause.....and star...When I turned 48, I started menopause.....and started that funk you are feeling. Perhaps, time to check with your GYN and see if there is any activity in your blood work.<br /><br />Enjoy your birthday Sweetie.<br /><br />Hugs, RoseRosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04718940729278446028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-30513128500755897242010-08-26T09:44:38.286-04:002010-08-26T09:44:38.286-04:00though we have had no one die this year, it sure h...though we have had no one die this year, it sure has been a banner year to think about dying and when it may happen. Rick lost his best friend in 7/08....and it has really hurt Rick in ways i probably do not even realize...and with his sudden heart scare 2 months ago everything has been turned upside down for us and makes a person sit back and think "WOW, i am not infallible". <br /><br />you are the same age was my brother and 9 months younger than Rick.<br /><br />what you are feeling is normal, BTW....i do hope you feel lots better super quick.....there are moments in life where you sit and think "OMG, am i ever going to have enough time to get IT ALL done?!!". I hope you are able to feel better and find some time to just reflect, sit back and enjoy everything. I wish for you the happiest of birthdays.lisa https://www.blogger.com/profile/07625835751678075313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-9682700632364183552010-08-26T09:21:07.454-04:002010-08-26T09:21:07.454-04:00Don't apologize for having feelings and emotio...Don't apologize for having feelings and emotions about any of this. I had the same similar experience a few years ago., I can't remember if it was my 50th or not. It may not have been even associated with a birthday. It's just one day your mind wanders to a place that you never wanted it to go, and there you are. More life behind you then ahead of you. What an ugly thought that is. But it's not even that, it's the realization that those ideas of immortality that we had as children are suddenly wiped out by that single thought. When you're a kid everything seems so far ahead, but when you get older, all of a sudden it isn't. We do have an internal clock, so I am sure that as we age, we recognize that each year is a lesser percentage of our total life, so they do seem to fly by when compared with your entire life. A decade was half my life when I was 20. Now, it's only a fifth. It's that harmonic sequence that gets us.<br />But I got over it and so will you. The grass will be a little greener, and everything will have a little more meaning. And you'll be back on the path to peace and contentment. It didn't take that long for me, and it won't for you. I am glad you feel better when writing about it. Those negative emotions will fade and you'll be your jolly self again soon. So don't beat yourself up about it. <br /><br />...and I never ever suspected you had PMS! :L)Stan in NHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09473396450228240345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-75226816601186835102010-08-26T09:20:56.488-04:002010-08-26T09:20:56.488-04:00We're close in age, and the thing that I miss ...We're close in age, and the thing that I miss is having most of my life in front of me. The having most of it behind me now is taking some time to get used to. How do people do it??Toonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02867993460493875221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-736448434152217111.post-36970360278919105382010-08-26T09:03:21.424-04:002010-08-26T09:03:21.424-04:00This song takes me back to being a little boy and ...This song takes me back to being a little boy and bowling at the Lucky Strike Lanes on Grand River across from my Mom's high school, Northwestern High. The bowling alley has long went the way of the Dodo, but the school is still standing. That is no small feat, as the shrinking enrollment and the inability of the DPS to manage their facilities has put buildings in jeopardy. Now, it has been rebuilt but that was back in the late 80's before I left for the service. Anywho...<br /><br />I have been watching Christopher Hitchens on You Tube lately. I wonder what put me off him before, because he comes across as engaging and not at all condenscending. Sorry to hear about his condition and it seems rather young, now that so many people are living longer and life expectancy has grown... ooh, that is rather ghoulish of me, speaking as if his cancer was a sentence. It will affect his quality of life, but if Roger Ebert has shown me anything, it is that so much of that depends on you...<br /><br />You know my family is a 'short' line? I mean that while one of my Mom's sisters is still around, that her siblings have all passed young-ish, by their mid 60's or so. When my darling brother suffered his fatal stroke, I took that as a sign, not in the way of a fantastic omen from the Sky God, but simply a trend indicator. No, 'trait' does not skip generations and someone is next...<br /><br />Since despite my appearance, I have different condtitions that make me feel that the 'sooner or later' question leans heavily on the 'sooner' for me, I took inventory of things and came up with specific goals that I want to reach before I finally get the answer to what is on the other side of the darkness.<br /><br />No doubt, this has caused some of my current personal issues to be inflamed, because I would rather be caught in the middle of doing something than what I am doing now, sitting and waiting for the next step. It feels like I am sitting on the bench and out of the coaches' plans for the game, because I never get in on a play or a series of plays. <br /><br />Anywho...Big Mark 243https://www.blogger.com/profile/10974573439218884164noreply@blogger.com